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3/10/2008 8:27:34 AM
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brightuk16
Posts 5
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Salaam Sister Heather,
I've just been thinking about some of the problems single muslim brothers and sisters face when searching for a partner online. I am currently searching for both myself and my brother and have noticed that the main problem especially brothers face is that they don't know how serious a sister is in finding a partner. I know of afew brothers whom have found the ideal partner, the sister after afew conversing for sometime decided to introduce the brother to her family. To cut a long story short - there would always be something in the brother which the sisters parents dislike ie cast etc. A sister may oversee what her family are looking for in their future son-in law.
To overcome this problem i would like to suggest events where families can meet and both the brother and sister can meet in a Halal environment. If propective partners are able to meet online initially and then the families are introduced at an event, this will allow the prospective partners to meet each other in a Halal environment, instead of meeting each other first and then getting the parents involved. This will also remove the uneasiness of families meeting each other for the first time. It is would be good for both families to meet in a neutral territory.
Wishing you all the best, Ameen.
Allah Hafiz
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3/10/2008 1:05:59 PM
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administrator
Posts 34
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Walekum Salam Sister,
Mashallah, this is a very good point and brings up a very important part of the search process. Inshallah, I am going to run this point by my husband and try to do some brain storming and see what we can come up with from an online perspective to help encourage the families to get involved. I was just thinking earlier today about how we need to add up the option for those who want to post a profile as a Wali, as a friend or family member and as self, I noticed some other sites have this and think it would be a good thing for MMS as well, plus I am sure there is much more that can be done to involve the family in the search. As soon as I can get some ideas put together I will post them back here to the forums and try to get some feedback, INshallah.
Shukran Sister for speaking up and trying to help us on this. MMS has a long ways to go... but INshallah we will get there and provide you all with the best service possible, but we really, really, really need and rely on everyon's feedback so we know how we can better the site as well as get ideas that we had not yet thought of, and this one is a GREAT one!!!
Shukran Jazelan,
Sister Heather
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2/26/2009 6:39:35 AM
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NiceLady
Posts 3
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Sister Heather, when you set this up, can you make it free or cheap for brothers and sisters who don't work please?
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7/1/2009 11:47:25 AM
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Jibril6517
Posts 2
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If brothers are not working maybe they should not be thinking of marriage unless there is a surge of women with allot of money who wants to support a man. But keeping cost down is ideal. If you look in your own area and surrounding areas you should find events like this already set up or you could talk to to the people at your local Masjid such and the Imam
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5/7/2012 10:35:41 AM
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Ray1
Posts 9
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asalam alikum,
since i register here; i received responses in the beginning however for long i am not getting any responses. i can understand that if someone would be interested; he would off course send me. i am an educated 34 years lady really surprised that i couldnt find a good match for me. i dont know why it is really difficult to find a person to have nikah with him. i think the idea of chat room is good where all the people could have chatting and intial introductions.
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9/10/2012 10:56:32 PM
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Ray1
Posts 9
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asalam alikum, i really appreciate Haether as even still this is very difficult if specially a female tells her right age like me on this. girl of i saw that males with 35 plus need a girl of 24only.
it would may be better if there would be such events where people and families could meet each other as i felt that while talking or chatting online thing got worse than better.
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9/11/2012 10:24:10 AM
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Ray1
Posts 9
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irfan12345
above is a very young boy and trying to have freindship here. if you need i can send you email as evidence.
Regards
Ray1
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9/11/2012 10:26:30 AM
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Ray1
Posts 9
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irfan12345
To: Ray1
Subject: Re: hi
Date: 9/11/2012 10:07 AM
i know but i want your friend ship. and i like old of me woman . i like your age . i know you are 10 years old of me . but i want you . want friendship you . and ....................
----- Original Message -----
On 9/10/2012 10:47 PM, Ray1 wrote:
Dear Irfan
thanks for your email. i hope you understand the seriousness of this matter. i am not here searching for friendships nor i am unrealistic female. you can see clearly the age difference of 10 years between you and me.
i hope you will realize that there are many other activities you can take for fun.
take Care and best of luck
----- Original Message -----
On 9/10/2012 7:59 AM, irfan12345 wrote:
hello how are you ? do you like my profile ? if you like you can contact me on my cell or my email address irfan000338@yahoo.com 0306-6520638
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9/13/2012 10:49:08 PM
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Ray1
Posts 9
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asalam alikum,
no body has taken notice of my previous complain. the person i complained for is sending vulgar emails. please take notice of it. i havnt block him so far so that you your self take action.
Regards
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10/29/2016 2:48:04 AM
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khan127
Posts 2
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Ray1 wrote:
asalam alikum,
since i register here; i received responses in the beginning however for long i am not getting any responses. i can understand that if someone would be interested; he would off course send me. i am an educated 34 years lady really surprised that i couldnt find a good match for me. i dont know why it is really difficult to find a person to have nikah with him. i think the idea of chat room is good where all the people could have chatting and intial introductions.
respected sis , do not worry about that. Insha Allah you will find the best one. Keep the hope that ALLAH is brining someone best for you and mostly the best thins happen without expectation.
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