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1/19/2018 12:22:23 AM
topic: How do I tell my parents that I'm dating someone I

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I’ve been dating Mei since we’ve met through a singles tour held by A Foreign Affair in Shenzhen, China. It’s been a month now since then and we’ve continued to correspond and has definitely gotten to know each other better. My parents have started to ask me about being married and finding someone to date and I don’t want anyone else other than Mei… so, I want to let them know about her.

My parents don't really know about the trip I had and clearly have no clue that I’m in a long-distance relationship with Mei. I am not really embarrassed; I am rather concerned about how they’d react. I don’t want them to judge my girlfriend or our relationship and I want them to take it as something positive. But, I’m not really good with confessions… how do I let my parents know in a way that it would be easy for them to accept? Mind you, my family is Christian and my dad is a pastor… I also worry how they would react when they find out that Mei is of different religion.

I know my parents are good people, they are loving and they care about me and my siblings… so I can accept if they have some concerns, but they can also be very protective and I don’t want them to not like the idea of me being with Mei. I could really use some advice on how I should let them know… please, HELP!
1/18/2018 2:23:11 AM
topic: What to expect when dating a Philippine woman?

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I decided to join a singles tour to Cebu, Philippines by A Foreign Affair for this coming

Jan. 25, 2018. I’ve heard a lot of good things about Philippine women; the fact that

they’re family-oriented, loyal and great mothers definitely made me want to marry one.

I want to make a great impression and succeed in this singles tour…

I want to make my expenses worth it. So, I’m here to ask some questions:

what are the things I should be expecting when being with a Filipina?

What are the things I should be wary of? What are the things I shouldn’t do?

I have many more to ask but for now I could really use some answers to these questions.

Help me succeed please!
1/17/2018 5:47:09 AM
topic: The girl I'm interested in can't speak English...

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There’s this girl I’m interested in, I met her through A Foreign Affair,

she’s from Bangkok, Thailand and she barely speaks English.

The services of AFA has provided a free translator and have been translating for us.

When we had our first call it was a bit awkward… but she’s still someone I’m interested in.

I’m just a bit worried about how genuine her words really are.

Let’s be honest, translations aren’t as accurate as we want them to be. So, now I am thorn.

I want to know more about her because she seems to be a real sweetheart but at the same time,

I can’t be completely sure about how we will be able to talk to each other,

especially when things work out between us. What should I do? I really need some advice and help!!!

Should I still continue and try my luck with her? Advice please!
1/16/2018 1:00:07 AM
topic: Long distance relationship... how do I make it wor

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My girlfriend and I have been in a long distance relationship for a good 7 months now.

It’s been going well but the ups and downs are also present.

There are moments when it’s unbearable, since we sometimes miss each other and the physical needs are always a problem.

I can definitely say that our relationship is worth fighting for... but on times when we fight,

it’s hard to make up with each other due to the distance.

I really need some moral support or advice on how we can make things work between us.

I met Gina through a singles tour held in Cebu, Philippines by A Foreign Affair.

It was love at first sight. Things went well between us and the chemistry is great.

I’ve decided to stay for a couple of months to get to know her better (her family and friends included.)

It was a huge jump from the ordinary but I’m glad I did it.

The fact that I need to come back to the U.S. because of my business that we are stuck with long distance at the moment.

We haven’t talked about marriage since I think it’s still too soon to consider it…

so, long distance will be our biggest obstacle for the meantime.

I’d really appreciate it if you guys can give me advice or suggestion on how I can keep our relationship stay,

if not smoothly, well. I’d also like to ask for advice on how to keep the spark between us to stay alive in this distance.

Please, give me advice.
1/15/2018 1:14:27 AM
topic: Ukraine's "City of Brides" - Is it worth visiting?

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I have always been interested in going to Ukraine.

I’ve been a part of a site called LoveMe and have been corresponding with a few great Ukrainian girls…

I’m not just interested in their country, I’m also interested in marrying a local woman of Ukraine.

The girl I’m interested in is from Nikolaev and I’ve heard that it is also called the “City of Brides.”

Apparently, that city has an interesting history that made it into a city filled with marriage-worthy ladies.

Aside from the fact that I am looking for marriage, I can’t deny the stunning beauty their local women possess;

on top of being marriage-minded they are also family oriented. I definitely do want to visit and meet Ekaterina

(she’s the lady I’m interested in.) But, I can’t help wonder and worry if visiting Nikolaev, Ukraine is really worth it.

Since I haven’t been there, there’s no way for me to tell…

my judgement might have been swayed by the fact that a gorgeous woman is telling me that her city is amazing.

I want to believe it all but I would also like to know from someone foreign who has been there.

I’d like to make sure that I won’t end up having unreasonable expectations… I need advice!
1/14/2018 8:16:43 AM
topic: Muslim man wants to marry

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1/12/2018 12:25:12 AM
topic: I Need Tourist Visa to Visit My GF in Thailand.

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I’ve been in an online relationship with a loving lady from Thailand.

I met her through A Foreign Affair and we’re in a healthy relationship despite not meeting in person.

We have video calls every now and then, and corresponds regularly;

and because it’s the holidays… I’ve decided to visit and spend the New Year with her.

I’m very excited! There’s roughly few days left and it’s a sudden decision,

so I’d like to ask for advice on getting a tourist visa. I’m a U.S citizen and

I’d like to know what are the requirements I’ll need in order to get a fast approval.

But I’ve also heard that there’s no need for a visa if I’m only staying for less than a month…

is this true? I really need some helpful input!
1/11/2018 5:25:26 AM
topic: Due to my fiancé’s religion and belief, she doesn’

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I’ve been looking forward to the holidays and my vacation is also based around this

Christian holiday but it becomes a bit tedious due to the fact that it doesn’t go well with her belief.

I met my loving fiancé through A Foreign Affair’s singles tour in Shenzhen, China.

It was love at first sight and I’m really happy and contented with her.

I am open to the fact that she stays true to her beliefs and religious practices.

Christmas has become a holiday which allows me to relax from months of nonstop work, overtime and deadlines.

I’ve always wanted to celebrate Christmas properly for a change;

like: gift exchange, great dinner… an excuse to spend for a luxurious dinner. Although,

I think we can just do it for fun but it’s still different since she knows it’s the Christmas Eve.

She’s also very peculiar when it comes to expenses and just sees it as some sort of a waste of money.

I’ve talked with her about it and have given her silly scenarios just to make her at least see it in a

different perspective that could be acceptable in her beliefs.

I need advice on how I should approach this issue with her again…

or if you have any thoughts for alternatives to do during those vacation days?

Thanks in advance!
1/10/2018 1:11:53 AM
topic: Where to find the most beautiful women to date

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Taking the first few simple steps in looking for a girlfriend is important. It takes effort to find one.

It takes willingness to seek for one. Who are they then? Or, where are these women?

Where to find the most beautiful women to date?

I’ve been single for over a year and a half now. I miss being cared and being loved by my opposite sex.

My ex-girlfriend cheated on me. I thought she was the one, but I was wrong.

I need to be in a relationship. I need to find the right one.

I need to be cautious in choosing for my future girlfriend.

I found out that a certain website offers a matchmaking service to every single man looking for their brides.

I was curious but I’m also afraid it’s a scam or the service isn’t authentic.

I opened the website, it’s called A Peru Women.

Based on the site’s interface, they match foreign men to foreign women. Wow! This seems exciting!

I really want to date foreign women, and I don’t care if it’s an Asian woman or a Latin woman!

I discovered that they organize Singles Tours in Asia, Latin America, even some parts in Europe.

I also read some testimonials given by men who have been in Peru Women before.

Well, those are really convincing.

I also saw a lot of beautiful profiles of women. These women are so gorgeous and alluring.

Their profiles are tempting also! I guess I need to take part of this service.

So here I am, asking for your advices about taking part of Peru Women’s matchmaking service.

Do you think the service is real? I know some friends who have been happily married

to foreign women and I want to be in their place also. But still, I need your opinion regarding all of these.

Can I find the most beautiful women to date in Peru Women? Thanks y’all.
1/9/2018 4:05:17 AM
topic: Moving and living in Thailand

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I’ve decided to move and live in Bangkok, Thailand to be with my future wife. I met my wife through a singles tour held by A Foreign Affair in Bangkok. Now that we’re getting married and I want to start a family the thought of expenses has started to weigh on me.

I want us to stay in Bangkok due to living expenses being more affordable compared to living here in California.

I want my future kids to grow up in an environment where they would fully grasp the importance of family and respect for elders. I want my kids to feel that coming home to us would feel like a natural thing to do and not because it’s the holidays, birthdays and etc.

I guess I’m a bit of a hypocrite when it comes to this issue since I also rarely visit my parents… but after meeting my fiancé and her family, seeing as how they are close to each other made me realize that I want that kind of family too.

I’d like to ask anyone here who are living in Bangkok regarding employment. Is it hard to find a job in the IT industry (software engineer with 7 years’ experience)?

I’d like to get employment before moving.

Do I need to be fluent in Thai before applying?

Thank in advance for your input!
1/8/2018 12:16:18 AM
topic: I need advice on dating a woman that has a child.

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I met this amazing lady through A Foreign Affair. She’s a 28 y/o Filipina with a 5-year-old daughter. We are still at the stage of getting to know each other and have been corresponding at least 3 times a day.

Everything is going really well between us but I am a little taken aback by her daughter. I don’t mind dating someone with a child at all as long as I know there won’t be any problems with the “other party.”

That’s where I need advice… she did open up about having a daughter, what she does for a living and her family, but she never opened up about the father of her child. I need to have an assurance that there won’t be any problems when things become serious between us.

The father of her child will always be a big part of her daughter’s life. I’m willing to compromise with that, but I need there to be boundaries.

I most certainly don’t want to suddenly get involved in something that may eventually become unpleasant.

I like her enough to want to know about these things. Before things between us become serious, I want to know where I’ll be getting at. Am I rushing things?

I’d like to meet her in person as soon as possible. I’m a little skeptical about months long of only exchanging letters.

I want to get a hint of assurance and start from there… I really need advice. Help me!
1/5/2018 12:17:36 AM
topic: Living in the Philippines.

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I’ve been living in Davao, Philippines since I married my Filipina. It’s been a little over 2 years since I’ve moved. I’m still adjusting to the heat and culture.

I met my wife through one of the singles tour held by A Foreign Affair here in Davao.
It only took me a full week to fall in love with my wife and the country.

We got married after 7 months in California and we’ve decided to fly back and settle down here.

I love the country! The food is amazing and the people are very hospitable. There are certain things about their culture that I still can’t fully understand and the weather can get significantly warm.

But living here has been nothing but a delight. I was able to open a restaurant and so far everything has been pretty affordable. The amount I’m paying all the bills and what I get to earn is definitely more than enough when starting a family.

Most of my family and friends were telling me how it’ll be hard to make a living if I move here but with what has happened so far, it might be that I just got lucky, but the living expenses are reasonable enough and saving up is going smoothly.

So, if you have any question regarding moving to the Philippines, feel free to send me a private message or post a comment below!
1/4/2018 12:11:11 AM
topic: Marrying someone I met through online...

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I’ve been dating Mariela from Barcelona, Spain for over a year now.

We’ve only met twice and whenever we met we would spend a full month together which is nice…

but our relationship is technically that of online romance. Despite the distance and the scarcity of

physical contact and meet up in the duration of our year long relationship,

I can say that everything we experience and say to each other is real.

I’m really happy with her and it has gotten to a point where the distance is becoming painful.

I want us to be together, live together and have a family together.

We are both in the age and state where we can definitely have a family if we want to… so,

I’ve decided to propose to her this coming Christmas. I’m flying over to Barcelona

to spend the holidays with her and I will pop-up the question after dinner during the eve of Christmas.

I met Mariela through A Foreign Affair, she messaged me first and we continued to exchange letters and eventually gotten to know each other.

Receiving her letters became an important part of my day and responding back is always a delight.

She traveled to meet me first and spent a full month with me and we’ve decided to continue our relationship through exchanging letters.

When I decided it’s my turn to visit her and spend a full month with her… she introduced me to her family

and the city she was born and raised. The woman whom I’ve been dating online became even more wonderful.

It’s always amazing being with her and meeting her family.

At that moment, I realized that I don’t want to part with her, the distance may have given us a chance to really get

to know each other since all we did was talk but it has become painful too. I want to marry this beautiful woman.

Now that’s decided, I want to ask for suggestions and advice on how I should propose to her.

Though, I’m sure that we love each other, I want to make sure that I propose to her that she would see me irresistible.

Any thoughts how to make the most romantic proposal? Please, leave a comment!
1/3/2018 3:32:45 AM
topic: Will joining a singles tour help me move on from m

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I’m 48 and already divorced. My ex wife has cheated on me and is pregnant with another man’s child.

To be honest, I would have forgiven her for doing it once but to be carrying someone else’s child is too much.

I know that no matter what I decide to do that our marriage will never work out anymore if we decide to stay together.

People are telling me to take my time in healing from the ordeal with my ex wife and maybe I’m just too lonely…

but there’s a strong need within me to be with someone. I am tired of being with someone who may or may not stay.

I’ve decided to try my luck with online dating and that’s how I found A Foreign Affair.

AFA offers not just online dating but also singles tours to meet women in different countries.

From my understanding, the women that attends the tours are those that already have profiles in the site.

I know it’s the most unconventional way of meeting someone and some of my friends decided not to make a comment about it…

but I decided to go for it. I am not sure if I really am decided but there’s nothing wrong with giving it a shot.

I just want to know if singles tour really work? Can you really meet someone and eventually marry them?

Has anyone here ever experienced it and succeeded?

I want to move on from the heartache and it’s probably not wise to meet new people while I’m still hurting but,

it just feels like if I wait it out… not only will I lose some chances but I may actually never be able to move on.

I’d appreciate it if someone can answer my questions and if there are anything else I need to know about singles tours.
12/6/2017 5:00:52 AM
topic: Beautiful 99 Names Of Allah With Translation

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Asslam O alikum!
Mashaallah All the Names of Allah is beautiful!!
today my thought i share Prayers Timing http://www.namaztimings.net Because without prayers, Humain is nothing, Prayers Will keep Your heart strong....
edited by shayanali on 12/6/2017
edited by shayanali on 12/6/2017
11/30/2017 4:19:52 AM
topic: Traveling to the Philippines to meet my girlfriend

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I’ve been dating a Filipina girl named Analyn for 4 months. We met through A Foreign Affair’s site and corresponded there. We are still in the stage of getting to know each other. I think 4 months is long enough to decide to meet in person.

When I told her that I want to finally meet, she didn’t seem to be excited. She’s open to talking about it and helping me find a good place to stay for my stay. At one point, she even said that it’s alright to postpone my travel. I honestly believe that it’s her way of being considerate… but a part of me feels like she’s stressing about meeting . Maybe, the fact that I’m coming to meet her is a trouble.

I’d like to hear your thoughts regarding this matter… I really like her and I really see her as someone whom I can definitely settle down with if things work well. But do you guys think I’m rushing it?
11/12/2017 3:36:40 PM
topic: Muslim man wants to marry

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Assalaamu 'Alaikum. I'm not sure if this is going to work but I want to get married InshaAllah to someone who is religious. JazakAllahu Khairan
8/13/2017 3:23:59 PM
topic: Trump Brings Prestige to the Mail Order Bride Ind

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For years, International Marriage Services had to live with the stigma of being referred to as Mail Order Bride services. However, many consider the term "mail-order bride" derogatory and feel it demeans foreign women by comparing them to commodities for sale and falsely implying that (unlike local women), they exercise no judgment over the men they meet and would marry anyone from a relatively wealthy country. Even with the foreign women being labeled as mail order brides these companies have grown in popularity for the past two decades, largely due to the internet. The industry grew at such a fast pace it caught the attention of the US senator Maria Cantwell of Washington State, who in 2006 she pushed a bill through congress known as IMBRA or International Marriage Brokers Regulation Act. Although the intent of Senator Cantwell was clearly meant to put Foreign Bride Companies out of business by severely restricting how men communicate with foreign women. In the end, the companies flourished under the new regulations as these business quickly modified their business models.

Kenneth Agee, marketing Director for A Foreign Affair one of the largest so called Mail Order Bride Companies says, "We have always had to overcome this label. Since Trump announced his candidacy for president of the United States, the industry saw a significant increase in upscale business men looking for foreign brides. Once he became president, Trump made it the new status symbol of success to be married to an eastern European women. With First Lady Melanie Trump in the White House, opinions about foreign women have dramatically changed. Once men were scorned upon to be married to a women from Russian or the Ukraine, now is seen as prestigious. And we are seeing huge increase of men seeking foreign brides, our client base is up by more than 200% since Trump has taken office. This month alone we will be taking over 100 American men to the Ukraine, mostly very successful executives." Beside online matchmaking, the company arranges group tours for men that will travel to countries throughout the world. During these tours the men will meet hundreds of pre-screened women during what A Foreign Affair calls "Social Events" or what Kenneth calls speed dating on steroids.

Critics say these women are just used as arm trophies for business men in America. That men take advantage of the women's circumstances, both economical and geographical. Kenneth argues, "I would hardly say Melanie Trump has been taken advantage of or refer her to as a Mail Order Bride. Women choose just like the men choose, we are all adults and are responsible for our own choices. It is just that men in America have a good reputation for the way we treat women and how we take care of our families. This opens the door to the men to meet some of the most beautiful women in the world."

Trump is not the only high profile person to marry a foreign women, Jeb Bush met his wife in Mexico. Rupert Murdoch former CEO of Fox News married Wendi Deng from China, and the list goes on.

If Trump accomplishes nothing else during his presidency he has clearly helped one Industry.
8/11/2017 7:38:01 AM
topic: Looking for Muslim women

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Hello everyone one here . assalamualaikum brothers and sisters.i ma here seriously looking for serious sister to do marriage.if any sister is interested you are welcome.i came here because I been witness of successful relationship started from here.and good luck for everyone one
8/9/2017 6:11:56 AM
topic: Muslim Sisters seeking a Muslim Husband

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