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4/12/2008 8:11:47 AM
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sethunya
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Is it just me or is there a shortage of good brothers? Its either they are non islamic, or married. There doesn't seem to be a balance. All i want is a practicing brother, and i can't seem to find that. They either have an extremely good quality with an extremely bad quality to cancel it off. Another problem i'm having is " do brothers take the time to read a profile" i've gotten letters from brothers who are saying the exact opposite of what i requested. I said i'm not going to get married ASAP and they are suggesting marriage ASAP. They write saying they want a muslimah 25 and over and i wonder why they are writing me when i'm 21. hmm is it just me or are other sisters having this problem?
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5/19/2008 8:48:40 PM
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SincereSistah
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Salaams sis,
I know what you mean. Then again sis i guess no 1 is perfect u'll have to compromise something or another when u get married..as long as it aint the deen..then insha'allah khair. As for guys who msg you and ask for the opposite of what ur asking..God help them..maybe they were half asleep when they read ur profile 
anyways insha'allah wish u all the best sis, ameen.
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5/20/2008 11:05:30 PM
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StuntinLikeaGUrL
Posts 1
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Ahahahaha that is soo true!!!! i get those also, i;m scared that soon i'll have to use my dadi's technique... MARRY ANY GUY AND THEN CONVERT HIM! let's hope that doesn't happen!
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7/11/2008 7:42:29 PM
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sethunya
Posts 8
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The rate i'm going i guess "daddys technique" might be my only option :S
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8/1/2008 4:57:40 PM
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muslimheart2008
Posts 3
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Salam Walaikum Sisters,
Supanallah, I know what you all mean, I put very specific things that I am looking for and not looking for in my profile, and it seems that the only brothers that respond or are interested have the exact opposite. Do they just not really read them or maybe it is the english language they struggle with. I know that in islam there is no room for racism or prejudice, but I have to think about my family's honor and reputation , which means there are certain natioanlities that I could not even consider for marriage.These men are not being realistic at all. Try being a muslim women of my age with three divorces on your record and unable to have children. In most of the arab world, I am considered un marryable unless I agree to be a second wife, yea right!!! There are numerous sisters out there just like myself, who are kind, loving and good muslims deserving of a good god fearing man, and the protection and financial security that marriage will give to her, but until the mentality of these brothers changes, which I serioulsy doubt since it is inbredded into them at birth from their family and culture, then most of us will sit alone as single muslim women. May Allah bless All muslims Inshallah!!!!!
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1/23/2009 8:09:23 PM
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nubiah
Posts 9
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As Salaam Alaykum I waiting for Allah to Answer My Daily Prayers for the Muslim Man that is in acordess with me - I'm not pushing it CAUSE your own ego can get you in some bad situations Knowlegde is power. Make sure he is Right Ask Allah the All wise Subhan Allah. Peace My Ummah
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1/23/2009 8:23:16 PM
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nubiah
Posts 9
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Hey Sisters Go to All the Masjid's in your town or other cities Then Have Singles Night were you Can Meet A Cute Brother Or Two Exchange phone number and go by the book GET TO KNOW HIM OVER THE PHONE FOR 3 MONTHs -REMEMBER YOU CAN"T TOUCH HIM TILL UR MARRIED THAT IS WHY THEY RUSH BUT SISTERS TAKE YOU TIME & ASK ANY / ALL THE QUESTION's YOU WANT TO KNOW DON"T WAIT TILL AFTER TO KNOW IF THIS MAN IS RIGHT FOR YOUR & REMEMBER SOME MEN DO LEAD YOU ON MUSLIM OR NOT. Allah WILL BLESS YOU FOR WAITING TO HAVE SEX ON YOUR WEDDING NIGHT DON"T DENIE HIM OF THAT ONE PLESSURE A MUSLIM CAN HAVE. HEY WE ARE HUMAN BUT FOLLOW Allah's RULES PLEASE...Qur-an Hadith check in them for more insight. Salaam
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8/18/2009 9:36:27 AM
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Rose191Dreamer
Posts 3
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Asaalam Alikum
The same is beginning to happen to me these brothers are NOT reading my profile. I say in my profile NO children or only brothers in the USA. I get replies from India and Pakistan, it's a waste of my time to correspond with someone from another country. And I've notice many of the brothers haven't checked their profiles in MONTHS! If they have already met their future wife, then they should have the decency to remove their profile. Unless they are two-time their new wife with the clueless sister. That is why I won't even bother with profiles older the one month.
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8/31/2009 5:21:51 AM
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sajdah
Posts 15
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Assalam alikum warahmat Allah sisterts.How are your searches going???
May Allah bless you all with good piouses whome fear Allah in you.
Don't give up and pray to Allah and if your prayers weren't answered don't think Allah doesn't hear you no he is all hearing and he answeres prayers..it's just he's appointing for you specific suitable time in which your prayeres will be answered so don't be in rush 
May Allah potect us All.
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10/8/2009 1:42:43 AM
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arsaghazal
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sajdah wrote:
Assalam alikum warahmat Allah sisterts.How are your searches going??? May Allah bless you all with good piouses whome fear Allah in you. Don't give up and pray to Allah and if your prayers weren't answered don't think Allah doesn't hear you no he is all hearing and he answeres prayers..it's just he's appointing for you specific suitable time in which your prayeres will be answered so don't be in rush May Allah potect us All. |
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12/11/2009 4:01:42 AM
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mariam8113
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Assalamu Alaykum Dear Sister I am new here in this site. I would like to get to know you better. I do really agree with sajdah she is right this religion I mean Islam's is based on hope. Hope is beatuful feeling in Islam.
Looking worward someone who wants to keep in touch with me.
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1/1/2010 10:45:50 PM
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Gato
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I agree that a good single Muslim man is hard to find as most are married or taken! But, as as college student, I am around Muslim men from the Middle East who are just as crazy as the non-Muslim men! The good quality is they are Muslim... the bad is they drink a lot, party a ton, and spend time with bad women. Islam is hope, and Ansha'Allah prayers will be answered and good Muslim men will emerge!
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4/13/2010 7:13:59 AM
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pvoice89
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Hello sisters...
II want tofind a husband that will exept my little girl... What are the odds of this?
I have a very strong faith base, I study our religion daily.... But I am afraid that I will not be able to complete my religion... I was not bnorn a Muslim but converted shortly after my daughter...
please help
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