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6/13/2008 8:55:05 AM
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aacia
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I think that both men and women are looking for that "perfect"person I have been looking for almost 5 yrs now, in the, within the 5 yr time limit, I have been asked several times but each time the man backed out. Is there a man who really wants to marry and is the age 45 to 60 that wont back out? 
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6/14/2008 5:33:08 AM
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janayali
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hey loook i m only 23 n dont think that i ill ever back out n dont take me wrong that i might b doin thz for some advantage or that but i m serously intrested n ill never bak out tiilll me life ends if u want to proceedd write here i ill giv u ma contact information thanx
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7/11/2008 7:40:05 PM
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sethunya
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Oh reading that has made me more pessimistic.. if this is to continue for another 5 years (for i also have that problem) i guess i should start signing some adoption papers.
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9/21/2008 10:58:38 PM
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akky27
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im nor scared to committ i want to committ jus need he right person to committ to
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8/4/2009 4:52:40 PM
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Dinnamica
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aacia wrote:
I think that both men and women are looking for that "perfect"person I have been looking for almost 5 yrs now, in the, within the 5 yr time limit, I have been asked several times but each time the man backed out. Is there a man who really wants to marry and is the age 45 to 60 that wont back out?
I think, the brothers just do not find woman with a good sense of directions... So, they prefer and old, familiar, secure way... than to trust for a woman to drive LOL.
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10/13/2009 1:05:22 PM
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rainbow_angel
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i think those who back up don't understand fully the meaning of the marriage
some of men have idea that when they marry they loose their freedom, but what they loose? what is cool about that so much? caring, loving person who will be always by yourside, whatever test you will have go through in this life and do all she can to make it both of you to Jannah?
i think it is even good that those men back out, cause it prevents good muslima from making mistake, and i think we have thank Allah for making it that way? better to wait right one, rather than spend your life with someone you didn't think you are getting married with
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7/8/2010 10:09:26 AM
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indonesianlady
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aacia wrote:
I think that both men and women are looking for that "perfect"person I have been looking for almost 5 yrs now, in the, within the 5 yr time limit, I have been asked several times but each time the man backed out. Is there a man who really wants to marry and is the age 45 to 60 that wont back out? |
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8/20/2010 12:53:44 AM
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I see almost none of the guys bothered to comment on this thread but I hope it doesn't supplement the impression of you girls that men are not ready to commit. I am here, commenting, see ?
Being a man, I can tell you there is no hard and fast rule to explain why do men commit or don't commit. The same goes to women I am sure. You won't commit with a man you are not interested in would you ? the reason could be you are not on the same mental level, you don't get along well or he is great but just not what you are looking for.
So blaming men for backing off would be rather unfair
Having said that, couples are settled in heavens they say. So why don't you be patient and pray Allah you meet the person you are after ?
I hope this helps.....somehow.
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9/1/2011 2:59:49 AM
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aacia wrote:
I think that both men and women are looking for that "perfect"person I have been looking for almost 5 yrs now, in the, within the 5 yr time limit, I have been asked several times but each time the man backed out. Is there a man who really wants to marry and is the age 45 to 60 that wont back out?
Maybe it's harder to commit when you are in that age bracket of 45 to 60 because of lack of motivation? I am 27 and I am very excited to start a family ASAP inshAllah so I would commit immediately as soon I find the right girl inshAllah. I have already found some good girls mashAllah and I started looking about a few days ago. Lets see how it goes.
Best of luck to everyone!
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8/11/2012 5:04:57 PM
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nancyhaddad
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Is any male willing 2 marry a girl with bp? Y r ee looked upon as crazy people and true muslims r not willing 2 be with us. But americans and non muslims r and they r willing 2 help us and love us. Thats a shsme 
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8/11/2012 5:05:04 PM
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nancyhaddad
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Is any male willing 2 marry a girl with bp? Y r ee looked upon as crazy people and true muslims r not willing 2 be with us. But americans and non muslims r and they r willing 2 help us and love us. Thats a shsme
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9/11/2012 12:34:35 AM
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Dinnamica wrote:
aacia wrote: I think that both men and women are looking for that "perfect"person I have been looking for almost 5 yrs now, in the, within the 5 yr time limit, I have been asked several times but each time the man backed out. Is there a man who really wants to marry and is the age 45 to 60 that wont back out? I think, the brothers just do not find woman with a good sense of directions... So, they prefer and old, familiar, secure way... than to trust for a woman to drive LOL.
salam awilikum
God has created in pairs in this world. may be Allah will give you some one who is better and more suitable for you than those who backed out. zazak Allah khyer
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