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6/1/2017 11:06:23 AM
topic: Please introduce yourself to one another

waliyy17
Posts 1
Assalamu aleikum i am waliyy
5/17/2017 12:21:23 PM
topic: What is your favorite verse from the Quran

mikaelali
Posts 1
One of my favourite chapters of the holy Quran is Moomin, meaning Muslim believer. I have thought a great deal about it and it has inspired me to write the following article to share with the whole world:

Polygamy is honoured in Islam for good reason. Islam allows polygamy but only to very few and those men of special rank and high status. It is also circumstantial and can be an absolute necessity. A leader of a nation or community would know that when he faces a difficult challenge and the problem is too worrying.

The most important and first consideration is doing justice and second is affordability. Its a challenge to most senior people in society. It is better to stay married with one wife than to marry more than one if a Muslim is not 100 percent sure he could do full justice to all. It is most likely that we ordinary Muslims will certainly fail to fulfil this strict law.

There is so much to talk about it that we need to write books on the subject. Why ? I give below a case of one issue:

I know of an issue where a man who feels youthful, romantic, energetic heart and very active . His wife is older and has such illness that he cant have desired relation with her. In the ancient past, men in that age and similar circumstances used to keep a slave girl or known as malekat, whom the right hand possessed.

Today, men in any age and circumstances go to prostitutes. Only few refrain from this sin who are believing Muslims and have taqwa, faith and fear of Allah. Muslims are told by Allah that they should see to it that no woman is degraded and forced into faheshat and prostitution even for need of money. They must trust Allah who will provide for livelihood, just be patient for a while. Soon the doors of halal rizk will be opened.

The holy, respectable and noble solution provided by Islam would be polygamy today.

So, polygamy is honourable, it is based on real life circumstances and the circumstances are wide and varied, different for every person, community, era, geography. There could be circumstances of illness as in this case, there could be circumstances of poverty, there could be circumstances of war, there could be circumstances of immigration and many, many more different.

Today, the important consideration about polygamy in Islam must be to avoid zina, sins of adultery committed by the married as well as the unmarried. Both men and women should be aware of this and should be concerned about avoiding these sins which is spreading as a global virus, a pandemic. Sin is a disease, its viral, it infects others.

The reason why polygamy is honourable is that it avoids slavery. The tradition of slave girls has given rise to prostitution in the world and today it has spread in darkness in all Muslim countries as well. Money is the main motivation for it. The desire for money is philosophical, of the mind and thinking process.

What were the conditions and relationships with slave girls in Muslim families in ancient world needs to be researched. I suspect they were treated more or less as wives but had lower status. Polygamy wiped it out and made an equal status of wives in the family of a man.

I think that unless global sins are controlled and made illegal by world governments and its economic systems, polygamy will become a necessity and to deny it is hypocrisy and even fraud and deception.
3/6/2017 11:21:23 PM
topic: Create Your Personal Custom Football Jerseys

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2/27/2017 2:00:48 AM
topic: Beautiful 99 Names Of Allah With Translation

humsohail
Posts 1
And (all) the Most Beautiful Names belong to Allâh, so call on Him by them, and leave the company of those who belie or deny (or utter impious speech against) His Names. They will be requited for what they used to do. (Surat Al-A’raf 7:180)

Allâh! Lâ ilâhla illa Huwa (none has the right to be worshipped but He)! To Him belong the Best Names. (Surat Taha 20:8)

He is Allâh, the Creator, the Inventor of all things, the Bestower of forms. To Him belong the Best Names . All that is in the heavens and the earth glorify Him. And He is the All-Mighty, the All-Wise. (Surat Al-Hashr 59:24)

Narrated Abu Huraira: Prophet Muhammad SAW said, “Allah has ninety-nine names, i.e. one-hundred minus one, and whoever knows them will go to Paradise.” (Sahih Al-Bukhari 50:894)

Abu Huraira reported Prophet Muhammad SAW as saying: Verily, there are ninety-nine names for Allah, i.e. hundred excepting one. He who enumerates them would get into Paradise. And Hammam has made this addition on the authority of Abu Huraira who reported it from Prophet Muhammad SAW that he said: “He is Odd (one) and loves odd number.” (Sahih Muslim 35:6476)



99 names of Allah
2/19/2017 7:18:33 PM
topic: Brothers beware!

Forlorn
Posts 4
I have been a member to this unique and down-to-earth website for about three months. I find this site to be useful to all legitimate members. Congratulations to the Administrator and creator of this great website. However, may I express my dismay that some profiles are not real or legitimate. These unreal members are not there to look for the right souls, but they are there to dupe people.Beware of this incessant scam/fraud.

Cheers!
Forlorn
1/25/2017 7:22:00 PM
topic: Brothers beware!

Forlorn
Posts 4
Hafsa is another prowling scammer online...beware

Thanks for sharing this devilish hafsa to other legitimate members.The so-called hafsa claimed that she is Tunisian.She loves telling sob and entwined stories for ulterior motives. I'm very doubtful of her gender. So, other legitimate members, beware and keep an eye on this ruthless hafsa.

Thank you and don't give up looking for the right one!

From: Forlorn
1/14/2017 3:52:01 AM
topic: Teen Marriage

mohamed12345
Posts 2
I understand am interested am 22 student from Cairo
1/14/2017 3:31:28 AM
topic: Aslamu calkum

mohamed12345
Posts 2
Am brother from the UK, lived in Egypt since 2012 originally from Somalia
Looking for a sister under 22 as I am 22 or even 22
Serious about this matter, willing to get wali involved
1/4/2017 8:06:06 PM
topic: LACK SERIOUSNESS.

Forlorn
Posts 4
Members are not active in responding to messages as they do it for fun. Some members get attached to many other matrimonial websites that they have very little time in responding to regular members' messages. Don't give up and keeping trying!

Regards,
Forlorn
1/2/2017 7:03:11 PM
topic: BEWARE OF THIS SCAMMER

Forlorn
Posts 4
It saddens me to hear about those scammers taking advantage of sincere souls searching for life partners. Blocking scammers' messages are timely decisions. Never allow these dirty-hearted people to prowl online. They do more harm than good. Thank you.
12/3/2016 2:16:09 PM
topic: Looking for a muslim wife

Mohamed1990
Posts 1
Salam

I am 26year old muslim, i am positive gentle humble good sense of humor.I have a good job nice apartment, only thing thats is missing is a wife. She cant be older then me but can be same age or younger
12/2/2016 9:41:25 AM
topic: BEWARE OF THIS MAN MY SISTERS!

zqlx90
Posts 2
do not worry
12/2/2016 9:37:27 AM
topic: Arabic Language Teaching

zqlx90
Posts 2
تعليم اللغة العربية
Arabic Language Teaching
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Q66wK770I4
11/10/2016 9:34:20 PM
topic: LACK SERIOUSNESS.

cosmic
Posts 4
Dear Brothers and Sisters,

Is it me or are there any other brothers and sisters feeling the same way. There are so many people who are just simply not serious, some men & women just like the thrill and excitement of being chased.

Any opinions ?

Cosmic.
11/10/2016 9:00:27 PM
topic: I'm looking for unmarried or divorce man age 43 to 47

cosmic
Posts 4
Yes man available.. on pen68@live.com
11/10/2016 4:53:14 AM
topic: LACK SERIOUSNESS.

cosmic
Posts 4
Dear Brothers,

Is it me or are there any other brothers feeling the same way. There are so many people who are just simply not serious, some women just like the thrill and excitement of being chased by guys..

Any opinions ?

Cosmic.
10/30/2016 3:05:32 PM
topic: Looking for a revert

jsamson1806
Posts 2
I'm UK based. 28 yr old revert.
10/30/2016 2:49:28 PM
topic: New to site hoping to meet a Revert brother 2016

jsamson1806
Posts 2
Dear Sister,

I'm a 28 year muslim convert from London - would you like to further discuss marriage?
10/30/2016 9:15:32 AM
topic: Im searching fr be my good husband.

islamicknowledge
Posts 6
Are you a practising muslimah? I'm looking for a practising muslim wife to marry
10/29/2016 2:48:04 AM
topic: Marriage Events

khan127
Posts 2
Ray1 wrote:
asalam alikum,

since i register here; i received responses in the beginning however for long i am not getting any responses. i can understand that if someone would be interested; he would off course send me. i am an educated 34 years lady really surprised that i couldnt find a good match for me. i dont know why it is really difficult to find a person to have nikah with him. i think the idea of chat room is good where all the people could have chatting and intial introductions.


respected sis , do not worry about that. Insha Allah you will find the best one. Keep the hope that ALLAH is brining someone best for you and mostly the best thins happen without expectation.
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