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3/19/2018 2:51:23 AM
topic: Filipino culture in their weddings

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Months from now I’ll be tying the knot with my beautiful Philippine fiancée. I met her on an Asian date tour I attended a year ago. She was so beautiful that night, the only woman who stood out, the only woman I learned to love in an instant. I courted her, it took months, but it was fun. When we became a couple, happiness is evident for the both of us. We seem to be the perfect couple whenever we’re together. Just 2 months ago I proposed to her, and believe me, I cannot contain my happiness when she said “Yes”. Now, we’re preparing for our wedding day. Please do tell me about the Filipino culture in their weddings. I want her to be the happiest woman in that day and I think observing the traditional Filipino marriage is the only way to be. Please help!
3/16/2018 1:47:31 AM
topic: Matchmaker... yay or nay? Advice!

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I am such a hopeless romantic that I tried my hand in matchmaking. I recommended, practically forced to be honest, my friend Greg to go on one of those matchmaking tours you see online or in movies. And guess what? Till now he thanks me every time we bump into each other in person because he’s that grateful! He met this down to earth Russian lady and he’s always been interested in the culture so that was a total bonus. They are just so perfect for each other! They’re even expecting a baby in a couple months, even promised to name the baby after me!
3/15/2018 2:11:45 AM
topic: Second thoughts...?

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I attended a foreign dating event last September and it was pretty good. Met this lovely Ukrainian lady and we started seeing each other. I’m not really the type that believes in marriage all that much, especially since we’ve only known each other for less than a year. My problem is that she is sorta rushing me into things I don’t quite wanna get into yet and I was wondering if anyone else has gone through this too because I can’t be the only one. I know these foreign dating events are intended for marriage but does it have to be that fast? Can’t we wait a few more years to know for sure it lasts? It’s like all the women want to get married in the first few months of getting to know each other. I don’t want to be tied down if it ain’t gonna work out in the long run.
3/14/2018 3:35:52 AM
topic: Behaving like a true Filipino

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Filipinos are considered the most hospitable people in Asia. I can testify this myself since I’m happily married to a Filipina. She has all the traits I want my wife to have. She is just so perfect to me. Now, she’s bearing our first child. I am so excited! I am so happy being with her.

I met my wife in an Asian date tour. Since then, my life changed for the better. She was the one who filled this emptiness in me. She literally completed my life. Right after our marriage, I began embracing the Filipino culture. I studied some traits, culture and traditions and applied it to myself and to our home. I guess, this is a good act to show my wife I value her culture.

Behaving like a true Filipino is not hard nor is it easy but it came naturally to me. Now, I’m enjoying our married life. In 5 months’ time, we’ll be welcoming our first baby, our first blessing. We’ll raise the baby with pure love and affection. I’ll teach our child the good traits his mom has.

What about your marriage story? Share your experiences and let’s talk about it.
3/12/2018 5:17:18 AM
topic: Changing my civil status, single to in a relations

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I’ve been single for 2 years now, no headaches with going out for dates and social engagements with a girlfriend. I’m happy with this scenario but I could still feel something’s missing. I mean, questions like, “How can I be totally happy?” and “How can I be more satisfied with my life?” always come up.

I am also living alone, specifically on the West side of the States. I have my business situated in the city where I’m in, have my other job also in the area. Well, for 15 years of living by myself, I can say, looking for a partner has always been a very big thing for me. I dated a lot before but I always end up failing, nobody takes me seriously and I don’t have any idea why. And that’s when I decided to be single for years.

Now, I’m thinking about getting myself involved with love and affection again. My friends are encouraging me to be in a relationship again to avoid being alone for the rest of my life. They have a point and to be honest, I need someone to fill that emptiness inside me and having a girlfriend might help.

I’m not really particular with my partner, as long as she is faithful and can be a great wife if we reach that point of getting married. My friends even joked about me joining dating holiday tours. I was really stunned with that idea, it’s only a joke but I could give it a try.

What do you think? What should be done to meet the woman I could call my own? Is joining dating holiday tours applicable? Or just hang out with some old sweethearts and see where it takes us?! Thanks, Y'all! I would really appreciate your responses!
3/9/2018 12:54:48 AM
topic: Travel with love.

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I lived in the same place my whole life till I turned 30. Being around the same people does feel comfortable and warming, but after awhile an itch comes around to push you to explore. Now I love foreign tours! I’ve been to Bangkok, Medellin, Davao, Kiev, Peru, Costa Rica, you name it! It’s just so exhilarating to see all the historic monuments and just feel the culture! The events are beautiful, as so are the ladies. Money well spent I’d say!
3/8/2018 1:53:43 AM
topic: Grow old together kind of Love.

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My parents have been happily married for 20 years, and you wouldn’t think that they would have met through something such as foreign matchmaker tours you see online. They met in Columbia and married not long after that. You can tell just how compatible they are by how they look in each other's eyes. My dad always says it was the best decision he ever made, and that made me want to experience that too. So, expect me to join one soon! Maybe I’ll even meet my soulmate! I am ecstatic even! What do you guys think?
3/8/2018 1:53:42 AM
topic: Grow old together kind of Love.

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My parents have been happily married for 20 years, and you wouldn’t think that they would have met through something such as foreign matchmaker tours you see online. They met in Columbia and married not long after that. You can tell just how compatible they are by how they look in each other's eyes. My dad always says it was the best decision he ever made, and that made me want to experience that too. So, expect me to join one soon! Maybe I’ll even meet my soulmate! I am ecstatic even! What do you guys think?
3/7/2018 1:12:08 AM
topic: Amazing event and amazing people.

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Soooo I went to this foreign dating event thing overseas, and to say I was shocked would be an understatement. Just imagine beautiful women of all sorts of ethnicities and nationalities and stuff all in one venue!

Yeah sure it may have cost a small fortune but it was worth it, the atmosphere was just so friendly and the view from the hotel was amazing! Not to mention the food. All different kinds of cuisines from all over. The women were jaw dropping as well! I say money well spent. What about you guys? Would you consider traveling if it meant experiencing the things I’ve mentioned? Big Grin
3/6/2018 3:08:31 AM
topic: Ideas on common mistakes I must avoid during tour.

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I want to ask about the things I should avoid doing during a singles tour… I’ve decided to purchase a tour package to Cebu, Philippines from A Foreign Affair. I’m a travel enthusiast and I’m also looking for love. When I saw this package, I didn’t hesitate at all. But it will be my first time attending one and while the decision was made out of a whim, I still want to achieve success.

I’d really like to hear from anyone here who has experienced or joined a singles tour before. Would really appreciate if someone could fill me in on the know-how, what-not and what to expect. Thanks!
3/5/2018 3:06:32 AM
topic: Growing old with her.

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Before I met my wife, I was really down. I’ve experienced a lot of rejections from all the girls I’ve dated. I didn’t know if I was bad at courting them. As far as I remember, I gave my all, my time, my energy, my money… but still, I ended up failing. I was jealous of how my friends are in a stable and happy relationship. It makes me wonder what they did to achieve that kind of happiness... have I done everything I can? I guess, I didn’t. It’s really true that “Almost is never enough”.

After my drama over my failure in dating, I decided to try matchmaking services of a reputable site. They told me to look on some of the profiles of women beyond my country. I viewed on some photos of Latinas, Asians, Europeans, and Russians. I was really stunned with the women. They are all gorgeous and beautiful. Never in my life did I see a lot of beautiful women who are hopeful in finding their man. Looking for true love.

After thorough scanning of the site’s interface and viewing of the women’s profile, I registered to the site and decided to a Singles Tour for Ukraine. There, I met my wife Olga. She is stunning and kind. I was mesmerized by how she carried herself and I fell for her completely, the rest is history.

Together we built a home full of joy and happiness. We are also blessed with having 2 kids. We created a happy family. Growing old with her would be a journey of a lifetime.

What about your marriage life? Did you experience what I’d experienced before? Feel free to comment and let’s talk about it.
3/1/2018 4:24:50 AM
topic: Looking for a gift I can send to my girlfriend.

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I would like to give my girlfriend a gift. Something practical, something she can use and something she will definitely like. I’m embarrassed to admit but I’m really bad when it comes to gift choices. Hence, I am here looking for some great suggestion from you all.

I met my Filipina girlfriend when I registered in a site called LoveMe and we’ve been together for half a year. We have yet to meet face to face but we’ve had video calls. She’s been pretty amazing and we’ve planned to meet on March 15th this year, for now I just want to send her a gift to show her how special she is to me. What should I send to her?

I really need some advice and great suggestions! HELP!
3/1/2018 3:25:15 AM
topic: I don't approve of my dad's relationship... I need

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My dad went on a single tour last month in Shenzhen, China held by A Foreign Affair. She met Liu and it seems like they’ve hit it off. That’s all great and I’m happy to see my dad happy but… Liu is only 4 years older than me! It almost makes me feel that my dad is dating a friend of mine.

Liu is a good person. I’ve talked with her and I know she’s a genuine person who can definitely make my dad happy. I just can’t help but worry and feel dislike towards the idea that my dad is hitting it off with someone who could as easily have been one of my girlfriends.

My worry is mostly the fact that she’s still young and she can definitely still find someone else. Someone younger than my dad too. Though, I’ve mentioned that I know she’s a good person but with her age, it’s still possible for her to still start anew with a man that can sway her feelings. While my dad is already at an age where someone who will stay with him definitely is better.

I can’t decide for my dad nor say anything about his situation since he knows it better than anyone… but as his daughter, I have a free reign to worry. It’s not like my notions are baseless… or is it? I want my dad to be happy, if Liu is really someone who would make him happy then I’ll make sure to accept their relationship.

At this moment, I can’t. I guess I should give her a chance since it’s roughly been a month since they met. I might even be overreacting, but I think I need to prepare myself just in case. I just need someone to make me feel assured about all of this. Any advice for me? I honestly don’t know what to do…
2/21/2018 1:07:54 AM
topic: My girlfriend talks about settling down... what do

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My Colombian girlfriend has been hinting that she wants to settle down and get married soon. She started talking about having kids and how many. Despite all that sounding great, I do believe that we’re not ready for it. It has only been 7 months since we met through LoveMe site and despite things going well and serious between us, I still think we’re not in a stage where we should be talking about marriage.

We’ve already met and it has only been twice since we’ve been together face to face and although I agree that the distance is really troublesome, I want us to progress in a healthy time and way. I don’t want to hurt her when I talk to her about the fact that I get a bit uncomfortable when she talks about “starting a family.” Even though we are both financially stable and I know that we can afford to do all that… I just don’t feel that it’s the right time.

It’s not like I’m saying that I won’t be marrying her nor do I have no intentions to… it’s just that, it’s not the time for me yet. So how can I tell her without hurting her feelings? I don’t want to lose her and I don’t want this to be a reason for trouble between us, especially with this distance… what should I do? I need HELP!
2/15/2018 12:49:15 AM
topic: Going overseas for our honeymoon

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And we just got married…
I promised Elaine, my now wife, that we’ll travel overseas for our honeymoon. I’ve been looking for some beautiful destinations to visit starting next week, but to no avail, I just can’t decide. This escapade will last for a month so I need to choose the best. I want what’s best for her, I mean every man does. For every guys out there, I know you feel the same way like giving the best for your woman.

I met Elaine at AFA’s tour in Thailand. Before deciding to go to Thailand, I was a little bit hesitant. I was thinking that I might just be wasting my time there. But after many deliberations, and probably out of curiosity, I decided to go. I was not that excited when the plane landed to Bangkok. The staff greeted us and took us to a very luxurious hotel. The time came to meet the women, man, all my life I’ve never been surrounded by a lot of beautiful and alluring ladies. Excitement came and I enjoyed the night talking to them. And there I met Elaine, probably the most beautiful woman that night. I just can’t take my eyes off her. I talked to her a lot and asked her for a date.

She said yes and our relationship have gone deeper until we came to the point of getting married.
I promised her I would take her abroad after our wedding. Now, I’m here asking for advice on places newly-wed couple should go. A place romantic enough to enjoy quality time together. So can anyone here give me some options? Asia? Africa? Croatia? I need your help ASAP!
2/13/2018 5:18:56 AM
topic: How do you know it's the right time to settle down

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I’ve been dating my girlfriend for about a year now… we’re in a long distance relationship and I met her through this site called LoveMe. We’ve met when I visited her in Bangkok, Thailand and things have been going really well between us. The distance has been weighing on us and it’s obviously frustrating. We’ve been talking about what it would be like living together and surprisingly have been fun talking and thinking about it too… so now, I’ve been wondering.

Maybe it’s time that we think about settling down. But, maybe it’s because of the distance frustrating me that is making me think about these… so now, I’d like to ask, how do you know that it’s the right time to settle down? How do you know that it’s about time to think of marrying and starting a family? I am financially stable and I’m confident that I can support her as well. Although, having kids would be for a latter time.

But anyway, I really need advice… it is smart for me to think of popping the question?
2/7/2018 1:16:55 AM
topic: Visiting my girlfriend for Valentine's Day.

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It’s the most romantic time of the year. This is what we believe during Valentine’s day. And this time, I want it to be happier and romantic. Wanna know why? I’m visiting my Chinese girlfriend in Shenzhen. It should be fun and exciting. This will also be my vacation in China!

Chen and I have been in a relationship for 5 years now. Our ways met during AFA’s tour in Shenzhen, China. For those years of being in a relationship with her, we’ve experienced a lot of struggles. There are times we don’t get along, but love is still present. Even if our cultures differ, still we did our best for understanding to come. To some it up, we did experience ups and downs but our relationship even became more stronger.

Now, Valentine’s day is coming. I’ll visit her but I also want to bring something special to her. A gift. What could be the best gift to give to her? What about a ring? Do you think it’s time to tie the knot? Do you think it’s time already? What do you think guys? But I don’t want to stress her with that. Thanks for your responses.
2/6/2018 12:49:26 AM
topic: Someone followed me on Instagram...

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I was busy scrolling through Instagram when a profile followed me. Of course, i looked at it and saw a woman. The username is cityofbridesofficial. I opened the profile and saw a lot of pictures of beautiful women coming from Ukraine.
I followed back since I want to know more of it.

While I continue scanning through the instagram account, I’ve observed that there’s a website linked on it. I opened the site and it’s actually an affiliate of AFA, I’ve known this site before but I paid no attention. So here I am, starting to get interested with the service.

I’m most interested with the City of Brides which is a main affiliate of A Foreign Affair. I want to know those Nikolaev women more. I heard they make good wives. But I want to know them first before delving into marriage. The answer was seen through its Romance Tour, an affair similar with AFA’s Singles Tour. In this way, I can meet them and know them.

Do you think this is worth it? Should I pay more attention to this? What could possibly happen to me if I use the service?
2/1/2018 11:51:54 PM
topic: Meeting Andrew from the USA

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Hi! I’m Anastasia from Ukraine. I’ve been a part of AFA for 2 years already. Now, I’m meeting a man named Andrew next week. And I have a little time to prepare for it.

I want him to cherish his stay here in my country!

Andrew and I have been talking over the phone for 9 months already. The phone translator of AFA has been a great help for us. No communication barrier has been observed and the good thing is he even taught me how to speak English! Isn’t that awesome? He is the reason why I learned to speak and write in English.

Now, back to my concern. I’ll be meeting him for the FIRST TIME! I’m a bit nervous.

What should be my first word to him? Should I say “Hi”? “Hello”? Or “How are you”.

I’m asking this because I’m not that well aware of the American culture. What should I wear? What should I do to let him feel he’s very welcome here in Ukraine?
2/1/2018 4:46:21 AM
topic: What is it like to join a dating site?

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My friend, Joel, is happily married to a Filipina. He met her while participating a Singles Tour in Philippines held by A Foreign Affair. For 6 months, I saw nothing in my friend’s face but happiness. He’s always proud of her whenever we meet. I guess, I’ll give AFA a shot!

So, I opened the website. I browsed and browsed. I viewed some of the profiles. I read the women’s profiles. I scanned some of their pictures. I looked eagerly and the service is a little interesting. Now, which of these women should I choose? A lot of choices are given here: Asian, European, Latinas, Russians.

I might try to get involved with the women of the Philippines also. I want to experience what my friend is experiencing now. Should I really delve into AFA’s service? What is it like to join such site? I need your advice before I do so. I don’t want scammers, if you know what I mean. Thanks y’all!
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