Powered by Jitbit AspNetForum free trial version.
Muslim Marriage and Muslim Matrimonial
Muslim Marriage and Matrimonial Service
[login]

Become a Member
  • No membership fees
  • Send free email
  • Thousands of members



Home » Recent messages recent posts - RSS
7/20/2018 1:01:50 AM
topic: Is it normal for exes to be friends?

mariom
Posts 1
My ex and I broke up over third party and that was my cousin. They are both in love with each other so I let my girlfriend go. She isn’t happy with me anymore; why should I cage her? Yet, after everything that had happened, we became friends. It was awkward at first but I got to learn it eventually. I cannot stop from seeing her more often though because she’s my cousin’s girlfriend now and she’s always present in our family gatherings. It’s so devastating to see her with my cousin but what can I do? At first, I stopped going to family gatherings because of her. However, my grandma asked me not to. You know, Thai ladies are very particular with family bonds so grandma will ask for my presence everytime there is a family celebration. I am not really certain if I already have moved on or am I just acting civil toward her. Is this normal? I mean, her and I being friends?
7/20/2018 12:58:26 AM
topic: Should I date her of amidst distance?

jarred
Posts 1
I met this Colombian girl at a Latin foreign affair I once attended to. She actually got my attention through her looks. I don’t think it is quite undeniable that men would be attracted to girls who have such nice and curvaceous bodies. I came to her and started talking. I thought she’d be like any typical girl I know who’d say yes as soon as you ask them to hang out with you; to my surprise, I had to talk to her more before she said yes. Eventually, we started hanging out and we keep on exchanging messages. I would want to ask her out on a date but I am not so sure whether or not I would get a yes from her. What if she rejects me because of our distance? Or what if it does not go well because of distance? I’m quite hesitant. Will you help me out?
7/16/2018 1:13:31 PM
topic: My wife got impregnated by another man.

obada
Posts 1
Try to things you liked before you met your wife, and then think how was she your this hole seven year with you, if she was good
5/17/2018 1:00:36 AM
topic: Her son is making me feel so unwelcome

joshreid14
Posts 1
I prepared well for that day, but my fiance's son is making me feel so unwelcome. I did what that marriage tours had suggested on meeting one’s fiance's family member, but it didn’t work so good. I know I did well on her parents but the problem is the kid. It seems like he doesn’t like me. I tried my best to look good in his front but to no avail--he just sneered at me. Wedding is happening in two weeks now and I need to win that kid’s heart first. What should I do?
1/14/2018 8:16:43 AM
topic: Muslim man wants to marry

nrakibuls
Posts 1
hmm
12/6/2017 5:00:52 AM
topic: Beautiful 99 Names Of Allah With Translation

shayanali
Posts 1
Asslam O alikum!
Mashaallah All the Names of Allah is beautiful!!
today my thought i share Prayers Timing http://www.namaztimings.net Because without prayers, Humain is nothing, Prayers Will keep Your heart strong....
edited by shayanali on 12/6/2017
edited by shayanali on 12/6/2017
11/12/2017 3:36:40 PM
topic: Muslim man wants to marry

BeardedGuy20
Posts 1
Assalaamu 'Alaikum. I'm not sure if this is going to work but I want to get married InshaAllah to someone who is religious. JazakAllahu Khairan
8/11/2017 7:38:01 AM
topic: Looking for Muslim women

Idriss16
Posts 1
Hello everyone one here . assalamualaikum brothers and sisters.i ma here seriously looking for serious sister to do marriage.if any sister is interested you are welcome.i came here because I been witness of successful relationship started from here.and good luck for everyone one
8/9/2017 6:11:56 AM
topic: Muslim Sisters seeking a Muslim Husband

nikahdestiny58
Posts 1
We at Nikah destiny , understand what the worth can get to the lifetime of being by a wedding. It offers robust groundwork to life. By considering this most important thing in the mind we give our helpful hands to individuals who truly desire to lead a healthy and satisfied married life the most common and various Religion in Muslim Marriage Bureau

Visit: https://nikahdestiny.com/
8/3/2017 10:13:25 PM
topic: Seeking girl for marriage and masjid wedding

Fall
Posts 4
Salam, I have expected to receive a response but i ain't stopped. I have been blessed to serve you with the addition of a dating service to my company product. I wish all the sisters to keep searching for a match with sincerity.
7/31/2017 2:47:29 PM
topic: Seeking girl for marriage and masjid wedding

Fall
Posts 4
Send me your email address
7/31/2017 2:46:15 PM
topic: Seeking girl for marriage and masjid wedding

Fall
Posts 4
Salaam,
I am honest and sincere with Yemeni Arab origins. I am seeking a woman for marriage(all wedding arrangements made by the masjid at low cost). Send me your and my social media company will invite for you to join me.
7/31/2017 2:17:50 PM
topic: Looking for a revert

Fall
Posts 4
Salaam
7/21/2017 2:43:18 AM
topic: Remembrance For Hardship

humsohail
Posts 2
“There is no God but Allah,the magnificent,the forbearing;there is no God but Allah,Lord of the Glorious Throne;there is no God but Allah,Lord of the Heaven and Earth,and Lord of the glorious Throne.”

Say Subhan Allah
6/1/2017 11:06:23 AM
topic: Please introduce yourself to one another

waliyy17
Posts 1
Assalamu aleikum i am waliyy
5/17/2017 12:21:23 PM
topic: What is your favorite verse from the Quran

mikaelali
Posts 1
One of my favourite chapters of the holy Quran is Moomin, meaning Muslim believer. I have thought a great deal about it and it has inspired me to write the following article to share with the whole world:

Polygamy is honoured in Islam for good reason. Islam allows polygamy but only to very few and those men of special rank and high status. It is also circumstantial and can be an absolute necessity. A leader of a nation or community would know that when he faces a difficult challenge and the problem is too worrying.

The most important and first consideration is doing justice and second is affordability. Its a challenge to most senior people in society. It is better to stay married with one wife than to marry more than one if a Muslim is not 100 percent sure he could do full justice to all. It is most likely that we ordinary Muslims will certainly fail to fulfil this strict law.

There is so much to talk about it that we need to write books on the subject. Why ? I give below a case of one issue:

I know of an issue where a man who feels youthful, romantic, energetic heart and very active . His wife is older and has such illness that he cant have desired relation with her. In the ancient past, men in that age and similar circumstances used to keep a slave girl or known as malekat, whom the right hand possessed.

Today, men in any age and circumstances go to prostitutes. Only few refrain from this sin who are believing Muslims and have taqwa, faith and fear of Allah. Muslims are told by Allah that they should see to it that no woman is degraded and forced into faheshat and prostitution even for need of money. They must trust Allah who will provide for livelihood, just be patient for a while. Soon the doors of halal rizk will be opened.

The holy, respectable and noble solution provided by Islam would be polygamy today.

So, polygamy is honourable, it is based on real life circumstances and the circumstances are wide and varied, different for every person, community, era, geography. There could be circumstances of illness as in this case, there could be circumstances of poverty, there could be circumstances of war, there could be circumstances of immigration and many, many more different.

Today, the important consideration about polygamy in Islam must be to avoid zina, sins of adultery committed by the married as well as the unmarried. Both men and women should be aware of this and should be concerned about avoiding these sins which is spreading as a global virus, a pandemic. Sin is a disease, its viral, it infects others.

The reason why polygamy is honourable is that it avoids slavery. The tradition of slave girls has given rise to prostitution in the world and today it has spread in darkness in all Muslim countries as well. Money is the main motivation for it. The desire for money is philosophical, of the mind and thinking process.

What were the conditions and relationships with slave girls in Muslim families in ancient world needs to be researched. I suspect they were treated more or less as wives but had lower status. Polygamy wiped it out and made an equal status of wives in the family of a man.

I think that unless global sins are controlled and made illegal by world governments and its economic systems, polygamy will become a necessity and to deny it is hypocrisy and even fraud and deception.
2/27/2017 2:00:48 AM
topic: Beautiful 99 Names Of Allah With Translation

humsohail
Posts 2
And (all) the Most Beautiful Names belong to Allâh, so call on Him by them, and leave the company of those who belie or deny (or utter impious speech against) His Names. They will be requited for what they used to do. (Surat Al-A’raf 7:180)

Allâh! Lâ ilâhla illa Huwa (none has the right to be worshipped but He)! To Him belong the Best Names. (Surat Taha 20:8)

He is Allâh, the Creator, the Inventor of all things, the Bestower of forms. To Him belong the Best Names . All that is in the heavens and the earth glorify Him. And He is the All-Mighty, the All-Wise. (Surat Al-Hashr 59:24)

Narrated Abu Huraira: Prophet Muhammad SAW said, “Allah has ninety-nine names, i.e. one-hundred minus one, and whoever knows them will go to Paradise.” (Sahih Al-Bukhari 50:894)

Abu Huraira reported Prophet Muhammad SAW as saying: Verily, there are ninety-nine names for Allah, i.e. hundred excepting one. He who enumerates them would get into Paradise. And Hammam has made this addition on the authority of Abu Huraira who reported it from Prophet Muhammad SAW that he said: “He is Odd (one) and loves odd number.” (Sahih Muslim 35:6476)



99 names of Allah
2/19/2017 7:18:33 PM
topic: Brothers beware!

Forlorn
Posts 4
I have been a member to this unique and down-to-earth website for about three months. I find this site to be useful to all legitimate members. Congratulations to the Administrator and creator of this great website. However, may I express my dismay that some profiles are not real or legitimate. These unreal members are not there to look for the right souls, but they are there to dupe people.Beware of this incessant scam/fraud.

Cheers!
Forlorn
1/25/2017 7:22:00 PM
topic: Brothers beware!

Forlorn
Posts 4
Hafsa is another prowling scammer online...beware

Thanks for sharing this devilish hafsa to other legitimate members.The so-called hafsa claimed that she is Tunisian.She loves telling sob and entwined stories for ulterior motives. I'm very doubtful of her gender. So, other legitimate members, beware and keep an eye on this ruthless hafsa.

Thank you and don't give up looking for the right one!

From: Forlorn
1/14/2017 3:52:01 AM
topic: Teen Marriage

mohamed12345
Posts 2
I understand am interested am 22 student from Cairo
pages: 1 2

Home » Recent messages